FONDLE HER TINY ONE
Women fake it. You believe it. So instead of rolling over to your side of the bed and calling it a night, push her clitoris a bit more. If she evades your post-coital caresses, then you’ve done your job; if not, carry on. Most women reach orgasm more during post-play than during vaginal penetration. Do it!
Let the chart below tell you more:
According to Perry Bathous and Clarissa Flanders, authors of Swell-Wimp: Sexual Exercise as a Means of Reducing and Controlling Weight, while men return to pre-arousal state after orgasm, women tend to move back to pre-orgasmic plateau, then slow down to pre-arousal state.
So instead of giving in to your prolactin hormones and shut down completely, ride her oxytocin levels, otherwise known as the “cuddling” hormone, to “cool down” slowly (yes, sex is really a form of exercise), prevent cramping (and possible heart attacks!), and initiate that intimate “pair bonding” your woman craves.
TALK DIRTY (OR SWEET NOTHINGS)
Having small pillow talk after sex makes your woman feel that it’s not just sex that you’re after. Below, the right things to say...
In short: Do that again next time. You’re not only reassuring her that she’s got skills under the sheets, but you’re
also coaching her on how to satisfy you the next time around.
In short: You’re great in bed! Hey, women get performance anxiety too, just like you. Praising her makes her
much more confident for future trysts. You know you’ll benefit from it.
In short: Even if your smudged-up makeup sort of makes you look like The Joker, you still look hot. Intercourse
can cause a woman to feel vulnerable and exposed,” says Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners, so shower her with praises aimed at specific body parts.
NEXT: Let your palms and fingers take over
RUB HER THE RIGHT WAY
Check out the image below for massage tips from tantric masseuse Amanda Worthington. Your gal will thank you if you follow them.
BOND OVER MINDLESS BEDROOM GAMES
What does your woman do in her spare time? Play Games/Watch comedy TV/Shop/Sext/Work out/Watch sexy flicks/Read books/Volunteer? Here are a few examples.
The Intellectual
She’s a woman who thinks before she acts, and loves any activity that wracks her brain.
Post-play: The 20 This or That Questions (e.g. Cat or Dog?)—the harder the questions, the better...as long as she doesn’t toss it back to you.
The Fun Gal
This gal is all about instant gratification. It doesn’t have to be well-thought out, only that it has to make her feel
good.
Post-play: Cross-dress in each other’s clothes—but not in the creepy kind of way. Bonus! It’s always sexy to see her wearing your shirt.
The Physically Inclined
Doesn’t matter if you’ve been rolling around the hay all day, she’s still up for some more physical action!
Post-play: Pillow-fight or a quick game of Twister. Winner picks the sex position next time.
PLAY POST-SEX PHONE APPS
Here are three apps that let you spice up your post-sex act:
Women fake it. You believe it. So instead of rolling over to your side of the bed and calling it a night, push her clitoris a bit more. If she evades your post-coital caresses, then you’ve done your job; if not, carry on. Most women reach orgasm more during post-play than during vaginal penetration. Do it!
Let the chart below tell you more:
So instead of giving in to your prolactin hormones and shut down completely, ride her oxytocin levels, otherwise known as the “cuddling” hormone, to “cool down” slowly (yes, sex is really a form of exercise), prevent cramping (and possible heart attacks!), and initiate that intimate “pair bonding” your woman craves.
TALK DIRTY (OR SWEET NOTHINGS)
Having small pillow talk after sex makes your woman feel that it’s not just sex that you’re after. Below, the right things to say...
also coaching her on how to satisfy you the next time around.
In short: You’re great in bed! Hey, women get performance anxiety too, just like you. Praising her makes her
much more confident for future trysts. You know you’ll benefit from it.
In short: Even if your smudged-up makeup sort of makes you look like The Joker, you still look hot. Intercourse
can cause a woman to feel vulnerable and exposed,” says Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners, so shower her with praises aimed at specific body parts.
NEXT: Let your palms and fingers take over
RUB HER THE RIGHT WAY
Check out the image below for massage tips from tantric masseuse Amanda Worthington. Your gal will thank you if you follow them.
BOND OVER MINDLESS BEDROOM GAMES
What does your woman do in her spare time? Play Games/Watch comedy TV/Shop/Sext/Work out/Watch sexy flicks/Read books/Volunteer? Here are a few examples.
She’s a woman who thinks before she acts, and loves any activity that wracks her brain.
Post-play: The 20 This or That Questions (e.g. Cat or Dog?)—the harder the questions, the better...as long as she doesn’t toss it back to you.
The Fun Gal
This gal is all about instant gratification. It doesn’t have to be well-thought out, only that it has to make her feel
good.
Post-play: Cross-dress in each other’s clothes—but not in the creepy kind of way. Bonus! It’s always sexy to see her wearing your shirt.
The Physically Inclined
Doesn’t matter if you’ve been rolling around the hay all day, she’s still up for some more physical action!
Post-play: Pillow-fight or a quick game of Twister. Winner picks the sex position next time.
PLAY POST-SEX PHONE APPS
Here are three apps that let you spice up your post-sex act:
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